Familiar Strangers
When I got my first set of test results back in 2012, I made a bargain with myself that if I gave in to my irrepressible desire to find out who I was and where I came from, then I would be satisfied.
When I got my first set of test results back in 2012, I made a bargain with myself that if I gave in to my irrepressible desire to find out who I was and where I came from, then I would be satisfied.
I am a donor-conceived person. This means that my mom went to a fertility clinic with a sperm bank and was artificially inseminated to get pregnant. As a single mom, she felt this was her only option. She elected to use an anonymous sperm donor.
I cannot describe what it feels like to see your father’s face for the first time. I was on the couch and the lights were off, TV on, and the whole world stopped.
Letters from donor conceived individuals to their biological fathers or other genetic family members in search of information and human connection.
Letters from donor conceived individuals to their biological fathers or other genetic family members in search of information and human connection.
Donor-conceived people fear rejection by their bio fathers, but that’s not always the outcome.